Want to grab attention in a sea of generic headlines? Creativity and humor are your best friends. A playful headline can act like a smile in text form, giving potential matches a glimpse of your lighthearted side. The trick is to avoid clichés and instead, say something different, revealing or indisputable about you and your life.

Think about a simple phrase that reflects your vibe. Here are some examples:

“CEO of Snack Time and Bedtime Stories.”
“Mom. Coffee Connoisseur. Seeker of Lost Socks.”
“Raising tiny humans by day, dreaming big by night.”
“My life’s a like a box of chocolates, I savour the good moments and leave out the unnecessary."

These are warm, relatable, and even a little witty—all without trying too hard. A headline like this hints at your life story with charm, rather than just stating facts like, “Single mom. Love movies and hiking.” 

It’s those little touches of humor, creativity or personality that make someone curious to know more.

If humor isn’t your style, that’s okay, too. Humour doesn’t have to mean cracking jokes. Using poetic language, intriguing metaphors, or an artsy flair can also work wonders. 

For instance, “Heart full of love, hands full of Legos,” paints a vivid and relatable picture straight away.

The goal is simple: make someone smile, laugh, or feel instantly connected to your world.

Your headline doesn’t just have to be clever. It can also offer insight into what truly matters to you and your tribe! 

Let’s face it, as a single mum, time is like a beacon of light we need it more than we can say dinners ready!! You want to attract people who align with your values right from the jump.

Consider adding subtle but meaningful hints that highlight your priorities. 

Ask yourself: what do I value most in life? Family, kindness, honesty, adventure? Then work that into your headline in a way that feels natural.

Here are a few examples to ignite your inspiration:

“Family-first, forever curious, and always on the hunt for the next adventure—care to join?”
“Building a life full of love, laughter, and Sunday pancake traditions.”
“Serious about kindness, silly about everything else.”
“Dreaming of late-night talks, shared values, and big belly laughs.”

These headlines are easy to relate to and give a quick snapshot of what makes your life meaningful. When the right person reads a headline like this, they’ll know you’re looking for more than just a swipe right—they’ll see someone with depth and heart.

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You don’t need to overdo it! 

A headline isn’t meant to tell your entire story; it’s just an opening line, like a spark in a conversation. Whether you use humor, creativity, or values (or a mix of all three), think of it as leaving a breadcrumb trail that leads to who you are and what you’re about. The right person will want to follow it.

Your dating bio is your chance to let the real you show up and shine, set expectations, and give potential matches a glimpse into your world. It’s not just about listing facts—it’s a space to tell a story about who you are and what you’re looking for.

Yes being a busy single mum has its challenges but that doesn’t mean your bio should feel like a list of obstacles. 

Instead, it’s about being honest in a way that’s warm and inviting. 

Sharing that you’re a parent up front is important, (if that's what you prefer) but the way you frame it can make all the difference.

Here's some examples:

“My days are filled with bedtime stories, school projects, and dance parties in the kitchen.”

“Life with my little ones is busy, but they remind me to find joy in the simple moments.”

This shows that you’re realistic about your life but approach it with gratitude and a positive spirit. At the same time, it’s okay to acknowledge that you don’t have endless free time. A sentence like, “I’m great at making time for the things (and people) that matter,” communicates that your life is full, but intentional.

Remember, optimism doesn’t have to mean sugarcoating everything. It’s about showing that you embrace your life as it is but are open to new possibilities and making time for dating.

It’s tempting to keep this part vague, but being clear about what you’re looking for can save you from mismatches and wasted time. Think about your priorities and values—are you looking for a long-term relationship? Someone who loves kids? Or maybe just a good-hearted person to spend quality time with?

Here’s how you can work it into your bio:

“I’m looking for someone who values family, laughs easily, and isn’t afraid to steal a Sunday afternoon for an impromptu adventure.”
“Hoping to meet someone who’s kind, patient, and doesn’t mind co-piloting a Target run now and then.”
“My life is full of love and laughter, but I’d love to find a partner to share it with.”

Be specific enough to attract the right people but avoid sounding like you’re rattling off a checklist. While clarity is key, leaving a little room for curiosity makes your bio inviting. 

If your match shares the same goals, they’ll feel an instant connection when they read your profile.

Your dating profile photos are the first thing potential matches notice—they’re like your opening handshake in the online dating world. The right selection can make someone stop scrolling and want to learn more about you. Here’s how to choose photos that highlight the best of who you are whilst stressing less and staying true to yourself.

Prioritize quality of quantity:

When it comes to profile pictures, less is often more—but quality is non-negotiable. 

A few high-quality photos say much more than a dozen blurry or outdated ones.

Use recent pictures: Like within the last year! Yourself now is not who you were 5 years ago, and it makes for a more honest meet up.

Focus on clarity: Avoid grainy selfies or dim lighting. Clear, well-lit images make your profile look more inviting and trustworthy.

Be yourself: Stick to what feels natural—avoid photos that look overly staged or edited. A genuine smile goes a long way in making a strong impression.

Think of your photos as a quick glimpse into your life. Love hiking? Show this in a photo. Love a sunday coffee? Try get a friend to snap one of you next time.

Avoid: Over filtered, group shots or distractions. Because really, the person who walks into your life will only need to see you not the background, not the besty, just your magnetic self!